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| September 19, 2016 | 10 Comments

 

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My grandfather, Rosario

 

Were you aware that three out of four people know someone living with dementia? I was one of them. I say this because someone close to me had lived with this condition and is no longer with my family. This very special person was my grandfather.

I have so many fond memories of growing up with my grandfather. As a child, he made our time together fun, and I was always happy to see him. After he retired, our family began to realize that there was a change in my grandfather. We began to notice certain issues. He had trouble with his memory. His personality changed from time to time. He made decisions for himself that did not make sense. He was also beginning to have issues with his nervous system.

 

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Me and my grandparents at my 1st Communion!

 

Once we began to see my grandfather exhibiting these issues, we made sure to have him see a doctor. The diagnosis of dementia was shocking to all of us, but we made sure we found ways to make life better for him. My grandmother had to put him into a retirement home in order to help care for him.

I did not live close to my grandfather, but my husband, kids and I made sure to visit him as often as we could. We would tell him stories and listen to music to try to hold on to him for as long as his memory would let him stay with us. As time went by, it became harder for him to keep his memories of us. It was so difficult to know that we were losing my grandfather so slowly, and it was sad to finally have to say goodbye.

 

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My father and grandfather~ the year he passed away

 

Through my experiences with my grandfather and my own research, I learned that the symptoms of a person developing dementia can occur in many different forms. Here are 11 non-verbal and verbal warning signs that I encourage you to look out for:

  • Dressing inappropriately for the weather (non-verbal)
  • Standing still or looking around for long spaces of time (non-verbal)
  • Pacing (non-verbal)
  • Not able to organize words into sentences (verbal)
  • Cursing or using offensive language (verbal)
  • Repeating a word or phrase (verbal)
  • Reverting to a first language (verbal)
  • Having trouble finding a word (verbal)
  • Creating a new word to replace forgotten ones (verbal)
  • Repeating a question within a short period of time (verbal)
  • Not speaking as much or remaining silent (verbal)

*Note: An actual diagnosis of dementia should be done by a medical professional. These are symptoms you should be mindful of to help identify and help people who are or could be living with dementia.

The term dementia carries a lot of negative connotations. If more people understood the facts versus the myths behind dementia, it would help gain more support for the rising number of Canadians living with dementia. Take a look at some of the misunderstandings some people have about this disease:

  1. Myth: Only older people are affected by dementia. Reality: Though many people affected by dementia are over the age of 65, there is a small number of people in their 40s and 50s that do develop dementia.
  2. Myth: Dementia is hereditary. Reality: Genetics do have a hand in who develops dementia, but for most people there isn’t a strong genetic link.
  3. Myth: Finding out that you have dementia means life is over. Reality: There are many people living with dementia who live a meaningful, active life for many years.

 

Dementia Friends CanadaDementia Friends Canada is a partnership between the Alzheimer Society of Canada and the Public Health Agency of Canada. Its goal is to bring awareness to dementia and to change the way it is perceived so those touched by dementia can live better lives. One way to do this would be to become a Dementia Friend! These individuals learn more about what living with dementia is actually like and convert this knowledge into actions that can aid those affected by dementia to live better.

Click here to learn more about becoming a Dementia Friend and to begin today!

For more information about Dementia Friends Canada, you can visit their website. You can also connect with them on their Facebook and Twitter pages!

Disclaimer: This post has been generously sponsored by Dementia Friends Canada, the opinions and language are my own.

 

 

 

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Lyne is happily married and has two teenagers: a 16 year old son and a 20 year old daughter. She is a Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI), Certified Professional Wedding Consultant, and an Event Planner. It has always been her dream to create a website dedicated just for Moms since her children were young. Thus, after 10 years, she finally accomplished it, and the Ottawa Mommy Club was born in May 2011. She is also the Queen B of the BConnected Conference, Canada's Digital Influencer and social media Conference in Ottawa. She coordinated the Annual Infant Information Day/Early Years Expo for the City of Ottawa for 8 years. She was also the co-chair of the Navan for Kraft Hockeyville 2009-2011 committee that organized five community events within 6 months, and helped Navan reach the top 10 finalists in Canada. In April 2011, she received the Mayor's City Builder Award.

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  1. Judy Cowan says:

    What a great program. I have seen a few friends & family deal with dementia and it is so sad to see how this disease robs them of their memories/life. Will have to check into this program more.

  2. Cheryl says:

    It is so sad to see someone you love living with dementia. I worked in a nursing home for several years and daily saw the family coming to visit their loved ones and the sadness in seeing them not all there mentally πŸ™

  3. loriag says:

    Dementia is so hard for everyone involved. My heart goes out to the families struggling with dementia.

  4. Nate says:

    Thank you for sharing this

  5. Stephanie LaPlante says:

    Dementia runs in my family. It’s something I fear as my parents grow older. My heart sends hugs to everyone going through it.

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