Years go by and what happens? Well, one thing’s for sure…gravity takes over. It shows up in your body, face and mindset. Have you ever noticed that as some women age, they seem to care less and less about what others will say or think about them? Maybe you’re one of them? They understand and realize that what THEY think about THEM–is none of their business. How liberating is that – to not get caught up in the opinions which others have about you? Show up as yourself!
Show Up As Yourself
Life truly begins when you finally choose to be you. Staying true to yourself and not making excuses to please others is actually invigorating and empowering.
For those of you who have lost your fire, here is how to rekindle it!
Showing up as yourself can often times seem selfish.
Selfishness can often be thrown as an accusation at the woman who decides to unapologetically be herself. Unfortunately, some people fail to see that there is a difference between being selfish and self-love.
Self-love is necessary for you if you want to show up as your best self for your loved ones, your career and your life projects. It’s about loving yourself enough to give yourself permission to be first in line to receive loving care and attention you so well deserve.
How will you show up as being…selfish ?
It took me years to figure out that in order to express my true self, I had to stop saying yes, when I really meant to say no; that I had to treat myself as my very own BFF; that it’s OK if people are not happy with my decisions, because I am not on this Earth to please everyone.
What I’m inviting you to do is to try to practice self-FULL-ness–the opposite of selfishness. As an Intuitive Life Strategist, it is my dharma to help you find your unique self and live it fully and unapologetically!!
When was the last time you allowed yourself to be YOU?
Can you remember a time when you didn’t judge yourself? Relocate the part of you that is young and willing to be you no matter what. I have never let my inner-child stray too far away.
Where is your inner-child? Bring her back out and feel the authentic self she portrays. Remember how she lived life. Remember how she expressed herself unapologetically. THAT’S a sure way to begin showing up as YOU.
❤️Julie
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I enjoyed reading this Its great to be yourself
those are some good tips to remember for the new year
You’re right, saying no is sometimes the best answer.
I need to do more of this – figure out what’s important to me and how to accomplish it!
Great timing for this post, It’s just what I needed.
Thank you
The only time I can show my real me is when I am alone. I need to convince myself that I still am who I was before I married children and now older children.
The older I get I just realize I have to me myself and do not have to prove myself to anyone!
Good for you!