3 Tips to Teach Children to Respect Discipline

| March 15, 2017 | 11 Comments

 

3 Tips to Teach Children to Respect Discipline

One of the toughest parts of being a parent is discipline. While some parents handle discipline better than others, and some children take to it better than others, we all face challenges. If you want your children to respond well to discipline, you need to teach them to respect it.

Here are three tips to teach children to respect discipline:

  1. Explain the importance of discipline – Rather than taking a “do as I say” approach, take the time to explain and show why discipline is important to a healthy life. This includes the importance of self-discipline. Your children need to learn how to do the right thing even when you’re not around to tell them what to do.
  2. Teach how discipline gives control – Often children don’t respect discipline because they feel like it strips them of their power. If you take the time to show how discipline actually gives way to control and eases the chaos of life, your child will have a different perspective. You can teach them to respect discipline by understanding how it clears the chaos of the world.
  3. Show how it keeps them healthy – A disciplined person will do things that keep them healthy in life such as exercising, eating better, going to bed on time, and avoiding bad habits. When your children understand that discipline helps create a happier and healthier life, they will have more respect for it in their own lives.

Now that you have these tips to help guide your way, remember that every child is different and every situation is different. You know your child better than anyone else and you are the best judge of their capabilities and maturity. Use this as your guide to help teach them respect for discipline in life. 

Do you have other tips to teach children to respect discipline that you would like to share? Please write them in the comment below!

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Lyne is happily married and has two teenagers: a 19 year old son and a 22 year old daughter. She is a Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI), Certified Professional Wedding Consultant, and an Event Planner. It has always been her dream to create a website dedicated just for Moms since her children were young. Thus, after 10 years, she finally accomplished it, and the Ottawa Mommy Club was born in May 2011. She was also the Queen B of the BConnected Conference, Canada's Digital Influencer and social media Conference in Ottawa and Toronto. She coordinated the Annual Infant Information Day/Early Years Expo for the City of Ottawa for 8 years. She was also the co-chair of the Navan for Kraft Hockeyville 2009-2011 committee that organized five community events within 6 months, and helped Navan reach the top 10 finalists in Canada. In April 2011, she received the Mayor's City Builder Award.

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  1. Calvin F. says:

    Very helpful. Short and sweet tips that I’d apply.

  2. April Monty says:

    These are some,super tips my daughter has 5 kids,so I sent it to her

  3. Elizabeth Matthiesen says:

    Handy tips that all parents can get behind. 🙂

  4. Kam says:

    So important to start teaching these tips from a young age!

  5. Kamy says:

    Very helpful!

  6. Kristi says:

    I like the idea of using how discipline teaches control. Showing a child how it empowers them will definitely help them to open up to the idea.

  7. KD says:

    My eldest is very reasonable, and we found that from a very young age we could explain why she needed to do something or wasn’t allowed to do it, and she would (usually) understand.

  8. LisaM says:

    Sometimes it seems to be easy, other times hard. I find that we have to be consistent and then we have far fewer problems.

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